讲一件工作中的事

我们部门那个把所有员工都欺负哭的经理,现在被调离原岗位并且不允许再带人了。一个祸害终于被清理。从我最先跟他翻脸、举报,到他被勒令不许跟我讲话、并被送去培训班学习人际关系,一直到最后屡教不改终于被撤职,前后一共用了将近一年时间。

他是一个性格有极大缺陷的人,自负、多疑,生活在自己的世界里,对周围所有人毫无理解和尊重。就是那种从小被父母虐、长大以后心里扭曲接着虐别人的人。对他的悲惨童年我很是同情,但也只是同情而已。我知道这种人是永远不会改变的,只有让他远离可以轻易冒犯别人的位置,才能保障多数人的安全。

但是实际情况是,他的手下换了一批又一批(都是哭着逃走的),唯独他,居然在经理这个位置上坐了十多年,岿然不动。体制是主要问题,其次是他的凶悍风格,导致大部分人不敢和他斗,只有选择跑路。

我虽然不是他的下属,但也因工作需要不幸成为他的受害者之一。从那以后我跟他的所有下属都聊过,一是掌握更多证据,第二也希望更多人能站出来抗争。

所有交谈中,有一次给我印象很深,是一个中国同事给我说的,他说他爸打电话问他,他这样明着跟经理斗,经理会不会私下报复,比如人身伤害什么的。

我当时一下就懵了,真的。我心想,你儿子都被人欺负成那样了,你不教你儿子去人身伤害那个畜生,反而担心你儿子的哪怕一丁点反抗行为会带来所谓的更大伤害?!我的天,人都是这么懦弱的吗?还是这么懦弱的中国人比较多一些?

这要是我爸,我直接就把电话砸了。我脾气暴,而且认死理,这种人不应该在经理的职位上祸害人,我就要竭尽全力把他赶下去。你要敢来“人身伤害”我,除非你心狠手辣把我弄死,否则我一定送你进监狱然后看你在里面被人操翻。(当然了,我本来也不是特别想活,这一点必须承认。)

至少现在还没有人来报复我。偶尔会在走廊和他擦身而过,他从来都是低着头,并没有掏出刀子。

我想说的是,活着有那么重要吗?生命真的有那么美好?能让人对是非和尊严这么重要的东西都可以睁一只眼闭一只眼。

老实说,我们这次斗争的胜利,真正值得炫耀的地方只有一个,那就是在最开始,我们鼓起勇气选择了反抗。至于之后的很多周折直到胜利,实在没有什么高明之处,甚至是运气的成分居多,但是那都不重要,即便最后输了,也不重要。重要的是, it takes courage to do the right thing, and we did it.

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